Some Friendships are not Forever

Friends for a reason. Friends for a season.
Friends for a reason. Friends for a season.

It’s amazing how a total stranger can walk into your life and within a week, a month, or a year you couldn’t imagine living a day without them in it.

And then it’s just as amazing that a friendship that took a decade to build can just crumble and never be the same and all that remains is dusty photographs and old memories and that friend that was once so dear to your heart becomes a stranger once again.

If there is anything I’ve learned about friendship over the years it’s that you never know what will happen when a person first walks into your life. You never know if that person will become your best friend or just an acquaintance. And you never know how long they will stay or on which fateful day they’ll walk away. You don’t know if you should trust them with your heart, mind, and soul and then regret it one day when they leave and you have to let them go.

You just don’t know.

I used to hate the uncertainty of people who come and go during different seasons of my life. What’s the point of creating new friendships and relationships when you don’t even know if they will last? What’s the point of sharing life with someone for just a season only to have them leave at the end without looking back?

Those were the questions in my mind as I faced a new prospect for a friendship or relationship. And the question in my mind was always the same: “Should I or should I not step into this… and how will this end?”

Each friend I made taught me something special and brought something new into my life.

Each friend influenced me in one way or another, sometimes in a big way, sometimes in a small way. And whether or not those friends would stay in my life in the future didn’t make such a difference to me anymore. They played an important role in my life and if that’s all the time God let me have them for then it was worth it.

I’ve come to learn that some people are meant to stay in your heart, but not in your life.

Some people come into your life and stay for good. Others just stop by like a timely guest, never overstaying their welcome, leaving before you get too comfortable. And I’ve come to terms that it’s not the end of the world to have people in your life for just a season.

That’s just the way of life.

Some people in my past that influenced me greatly and that I couldn’t imagine not always holding a special place in my life I have not seen in days, months, and years. I have learned to just be grateful for the times that we shared in the past. And it has also gave me a fresh perspective and makes me appreciate my present.

After all I will never know how soon a friendship I thought would be “forever” will just end.

I don’t know how soon some people will just slip away from my life whether for a period of time or for good and I need to enjoy the people in the moment that I have instead of wish for the people in my past to regain that role in my life and take up the space in my heart that they no longer have.

People come.

People go.

But the time they have shared with you and the lessons they have taught you will leave an imprint on your life and in your heart forever.

Never be too scared to step into a relationship because of the fear of the unknown and because you don’t know if it will last forever or one day come to an end.

The difference they make in your life will be worth it.

The truth is you will never know exactly how a friendship with someone will unfold the moment they step into your life. And you won’t know how long you have with them before their time is up.

Sometimes you get them for forever.

Sometimes you get them for a season.

So learn to appreciate them, love them, and build memories with them but also learn to hold them loosely, after all you don’t know when it’ll be time for you to let them go.

And never run after anyone who is walking away because maybe they are no longer meant to stay.

Thank God for the relationship you had and the lessons you learned along the way but don’t keep on hanging on to people who are no longer there.

Even if the relationship didn’t last forever it was not a waste because it taught you lessons that will last a lifetime.

Close that door and start making room in your heart for someone else to walk in – because when you are ready and the time is right God will send a new friendship your way.

“Don’t worry about the people in your past, there’s a reason they didn’t make it into your future”

Trust and let go

Your sweetest Melody, ❤


Happy Friendiversary Powerpuff

Anniversaries are not just for lovers. As great as celebrating the special anniversary of being with your loved one is, there are other important relationships in our life that should be treated the same way: our FRIENDS.

Today is our FRIENDIVERSARY! Dalawang taon na simula nung mabuo ang “POWERPUFF”. A year full of talking, hugging, crying and laughing. A lot! Mabababaw kasi kaming tao at punung-puno ng ka-cornyhan sa buhay. Without them, life is black and white.

Anyway, moving on, I cannot tell you how amazing this past year has been. Shane and Ces have been such an amazing friends. Napakadami na nating napagdaanan. Nakita ko kung paano niyo na-overcome yung mga challenges sa buhay at maging sa friendship natin.

As Jeff Yourison said,

A true friend is one who helps you see the truth, even if it hurts. This doesn’t mean we can go around stabbing our friends with hurtful words. Rather, it means being up front with friends about important issues, raising gentle questions with tact and love, never gossiping or putting them down to others behind their backs”. 

Thank you Shane and Ces for being there for me when I needed you most. Thank you for listening when I was ranting, and making me smile when I only wanted to cry. Talking to you girls always puts me in a good mood. I can’t even tell you how many times you made me smile kahit ang kokorni nyo! I’m not sure if I can count that high. AHAHAHA!

Thank you for sticking by me no matter how weird, awkward, or crazy I am, thank you for being those things with me. Thank you na kahit pumapalya ako minsan nandyan kayo to correct and make sermons on me. Sorry din sa mga times na kahit tinatadtad niyo ako ng text and call pero wala akong response, alam niyo ang reason ko at naiintindihan niyo ako. Sorry sa mga mood swing at tampo days ko.
Sobrang nagpapasalamat ako kay Lord kasi kayo yung taong binigay Niya na makakaintindi sa akin lalo na pag may saltik ako, kakailanganin ko sa mga oras na lugmok na lugmok ako at kailangan ko ng matinding yakap, mapagsasabihan ko ng lahat-lahat simula sa mga embarrassing moments ko hanggang sa mga success stories ko sa buhay, makakasama ko sa paglago in His words at magiging pangalawang kapatid ko.

Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. But I thank God dahil hanggang ngayon kayo pa rin yung ka-date ko, kaharap sa mesa kasama ang yogurt, kaholding hands ko, kasama ko kumain every Sunday sa chowking, kakwentuhan ko tungkol sa puso, utak at tiyan. At in the near future, sama-sama pa rin tayong mamamasyal with our future Mr. Right and eventually madadagdagan na ng stroller. Hahaha!

Friends come in all sizes, large, medium and small. But there is no friendship greater than ours. Our friendship is a blessing to me. I thank God every day for His grace and mercy. More years to come for our Christ-centered friendship.

Isang taong pagbabalik-tanaw:

MAY 2013

LOTN-Mandaluyong summer outing
LOTN-Mandaluyong summer outing


June 2013

Dance practice


July 2013

Yogurt Time
Yogurt Time


August 2013

Coffee Time
Coffee Time


September 2013

Rhythm of the Heart
Rhythm of the Heart


October 2013

Lor of the Nations 12th year Anniversary
Lord of the Nations 12th year Anniversary


November 2013

Saltik Mode
Saltik Mode


December 2013

Young Pros badminton day
Young Pros badminton day


January 2014

CCF Thanksgiving
CCF Christmas Party

February 2014

Lovestruck Convergence 2014
Lovestruck Convergence 2014


March 2014

Camera360 day!
Camera360 day!
Young Pros Summer Outing
Young Pros Summer Outing
Hiking 2014 at Mt. Manabu
Hiking 2014 at Mt. Manabu


To complete the year, eto ang pinaka-latest photo!

April 2014

2nd year anniversary
2nd year anniversary


True friends are a blessing no matter where you find them!


I love you so much Shane and Ces. :* ^__^


Your sweetest Melody, ❤